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VINDICATED at LAST...The Jury is Out!!!!!
2/22/2012 7:43 am |
Over the last few days, my passion for knowledge drew me to two interesting blogs,with somewhat diametrically opposing views and concepts. The blogs posted by Mehak a close friend, titled "Venting" and a the other by Cilla a fellow South African with the heading " ONLINE LIES AND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GAMES WE PLAY "!!!!!!!!!!!!! Readers are advised to peruse through these blogs to have a better understanding of my arguments! In a nutshell,mehak argues against the immorality of chatters viewing age differences as a point of departure,particularly young women and older men. Quoting. "men over 40 are always trying to entice a 24 year old" "Every man over 40 should act his age and stop pursuing the poor young girls in here" " But where do we draw the line? it bothers me and I want to shake that man over 40 and say " Sicko she could be your kid" This was my response to her: Since when is there an age restriction for chatting? Sure I agree if there is a hint of lust w.r.t sexual innuendo, than it is morally wrong and I would certainly decry this with scorn" Cillas blog on the other hand embraces the broader concepts of cyber chatting..Quoting: "Why do 40 something years want younger woman" ? "Why is that the 40 year geezer wants to chat 20 year olds"? "At first the 40 year male is in love with her looks and youthful spirit, Oh my, he sure feels young again.Quiet amusing to notice, if you in the lobby, ALL HEADS WILL TURN, shucks he committed a crime chatting a woman half his age. LOVE HAS NO BOUNDARIES. AGE IS A NUMBER". Quoting RajivprathabIn: "this virtual world of online portals, anything and everything is possible and all the acts misrepresentation you described are part of the cheaters and abusers" So are there no liars , cheaters ,abusers amongst others in real life???[/I Quoting Rainstorm]..."as i said in top's blog..its a chance everyone takes...on the net or in real..we really dont know a stranger...at all"!!.. So there are great similarities right! Amongst other arguments is the fact that there is a travesty of TRUTH and HONESTY in the cyber world with ongoing cheating and lies being the very garments to disguise identity and not least forgetting the masquerades by so many chatters with different handles!!! HERE THEN IS MY ARGUMENT.: Since my first encounter in IFF, I have always argued that "VIRTUAL" is no different to the "REAL" WORLD where behavioural patterns are concerned! The personalities of individuals cannot be altered, unless there is a pathological disorder such as schizophrenia, a condition where the state of the individual is characterized by contradictory or conflicting attitudes, behaviour, or qualities or BPMD.  Why then are these two ladies expressing powerful thought provoking arguments about Virtual interaction, if it really did not have a bearing on the the REAL world? For the self indulgent sceptics..I trust you will not have sleepless nights reagrds the comments made here! For the indulgent (permissive) moralist, you may be withnessing a transformation through an emotional evolutionary process!!!  AM I VINDICATED??? YOU BE THE JUDGE THE AFRICAN LION Roarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrs  
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2/23/2012 8:21 pm |
Anisha,,...well written.. THE difference between well read and educated is the same as the difference between 'knowing' and 'understanding.' Sakina..you are just a pompous arrogant old man trying to push your views ,thoughts and opinions on people here and thinking by using strong vocab and grammar you can make others bow down to your so called superior intelligence which i dare say is nothing much above what normal people have. Language is just a means of communication and while knowing how to cross the T's and Dot the I's one may make one a better writer , not all become effective communicators .. you being the case in point. Your vocab reads really good , yet you have been as ineffective in making people understand what you want to get across which in one line as i understand is ..' There is not much difference between the real and virtual worlds.' Which is also erroneous to the extreme. HAVE YOU EVER USED THE ABUSE AND LANGUAGE YOU USE IN THE CHATROOM IN YOUR REAL LIFE... ? whether for Indians or Muslims and that too directly to their faces in the exact same vocab you use in the lobby?.. OH MAN i challenge you to do so in real and stay alive to tell the tale. Consider yourself lucky or call yourself a hypocrite and coward for abusing , maligning and insulting others just because you sit behind a screen and know you can't be got at.. Ahem ahem.. now let me see what guts this so called lion has ... Would love to show off my vocab too but then i am a humble shy polite indian lady...:D
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2/23/2012 8:35 pm |
In Indian culture the age gap is seen to be unbridgeable in terms of relationships but in cultures abroad age as they say is just a number. Being conditioned so, i many times do feel uncomfortable flirting with younger guys but dammmit some of the older guys show a maturity worse than teenagers and many times the younger lot sounds much much mature, intelligent and witty for their age. So how does one judge ? When we all come here we are supposed to be considered adults , so why do we need to think of the younger ones as 'kids'. We keep pointing fingers at abusers and jerks .. but refuse to use the easy way out.. USE THE IGNORE BUTTON !! And if you can't ignore them , then why sit in moral judgement of others.. Gosh i would love to continue but this is getting like alecture so will stoppp...
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2/23/2012 9:25 pm |
Funny how Cill is asking Sakina to take it or lump it when she herself is unable to do the same and has closed her blog for people outside her so called friend circle to comment... Gosh.. my fingers going fast on the key board today>>.
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2/24/2012 4:25 am |
About time someone one did your character assassination just as you have so blatantly and willfully done in the recent past with or without any provocation what so ever. I unfortunately lack the skills to vilify you in langauge you yourself use so will for now be my polite self.. As for morality issues , they exist in all countries , just that they differ due to cultural and historical reasons. Abortion , child rearing, homosexuality etc.. are all moral issues which are looked upon differently in different countries and to judge my country through your own eyes is just stupid and unfair to put it mildly. You have trivialized the serious issue of incest as usual due to your narrow mindedness and without any deep understanding .It is too big an issue to comment about in a blog. All i can say is DON'T JUDGE MY PATH IF YOU HAVEN'T WALKED MY JOURNEY'.am sure your countrymen will be more than accepting and proud if you sit in judgement over them rather than looking oversees.
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2/24/2012 4:28 am |
All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy. Gosh...what a day ...!
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2/24/2012 4:32 am |
And NO you are neither young or handsome... i challenge you to come on cam and show yourself.. Your inner beauty of course seems to really need a face lift..
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2/24/2012 4:34 am |
AND IT CONTINUES... i am sure if any other guy would have used the same berry/cherry line on Cilla she would have gone screaming and ranting to the blogs telling everyone how a pervert insulted her etc etc etc .. But with you... ahaa... lets see what she does..
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2/25/2012 12:02 am |
i dont know sakina off of iff.. bu i do know maria... i love her..she is my sister in all meanings of the world       
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2/25/2012 12:04 am |
i didnt see mehaks comments.. i was lied too lol
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